Pulling back and looking at the breakup from a spiritual, philosophical perspective is difficult — but so important! I’ve survived a few relaitonship breakups, and looking back I think I would’ve coped better if I would’ve known to look at the bigger picture.

I think our fears and anxieties hold us back from mourning a breakup — unexpected or not — and moving forward into a fulfilling, happy life.

Thanks for being here, Gini! I know your comments and feedback resonate with people, even though most readers don’t comment…

Laurie
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Your tips for not taking it personally and letting go of unworthiness and inferiority are so helpful as those are the things that get triggered when we don’t know what went wrong or what happened – it’s easy to blame ourselves.

I’ve found it’s also really helpful to trust that it is happening for a positive reason in the long run. If one person doesn’t want to be in a relationship any longer (even if they’re not sure why but it just doesn’t feel right anymore) then it must be best for both (think law of attraction – if the vibe doesn’t work for one it can’t work for the other).

People come into our lives for many reasons – to love, learn, play, grow and so on, but not necessarily for life. Sometimes we need to go our own way in order to grow in a new direction (which we see in hindsight) so it helps if we can turn inward and connect to our higher self in order to see the bigger picture.
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