
If you’re a woman who needs help deciding on a financial investment, consider these tips from “The Money Couple.” Whether you’re investing in real estate, education, your career, stocks, mutual funds, or your child’s college education…these guidelines will help!
Here’s what Scott and Bethany Palmer say about making financial investments:
“What now? It’s a question we are hearing from more and more couples as the recession takes its toll. Those who’ve lost jobs wonder what they’ll do next. Those who’ve taken a major financial hit are trying to rebuild. Those who’ve weathered the changes so far are worrying if they’re going to be the next casualties.”
The Palmers are “The Money Couple” who wrote First Comes Love, Then Comes Money: A Couple’s Guide to Financial Communication – click for information. And, read on for their money tips for women and couples…
Is This a Risky Financial Investment?
In the midst of economic changes, many women are seeing financial opportunities and learning money lessons. Maybe a lost job means it’s a good time to go back to school. Maybe the foreclosure offers a chance to move to a new home and make a fresh start. Maybe the availability of stimulus loans makes it a good time to start a business you’ve always dreamed of.
This might be the right time to take a financial risk or make an investment with your time. But first you (and your partner) need to think about these money tips…
What is your current level of financial debt? A mortgage or car payment is one thing, but if your credit card debt exceeds more than 10% of your annual income, you should hold off on making risky financial investments. Instead, spend the next six months reducing your debt. Then, re-assess your plans.
Weigh the pros and cons of this financial investment. Have a realistic conversation about how this new opportunity will change your daily lives-financially, socially, and emotionally. How will it affect your schedules? Will you need more childcare? Will you have to pull back on other financial commitments? How will this change your spending habits? Do you need to tap into other investments to fund this risk? What other financial sacrifices will you have to make? Only you can determine if these changes are worth it.
If you’re half of a couple, make sure you’re both on board. If one of you wants to start a business and the other thinks you can’t afford it – or you have different money personalities – get creative about ways to meet both your needs. Can you build your savings over the next six months so the financial investment is less risky? Can you bring in a partner to ease the financial stress? Can you break the idea into smaller, more manageable chunks? “Risk Takers” in particular need to make sure they have their partner’s blessing before moving ahead with a new financial venture. Without your partner’s blessing, you’re going to bring anger, frustration, and deep resentment into your relationship. And no financial investment or risk is worth that.
Take your time before investing money. A good financial investment will still be good two months from now. Before you make a major financial commitment to a new venture, take a deep breath…and wait. Keep dreaming, keep talking, keep saving, but don’t make a move until you’ve let your plans simmer a while. Whether you’re talking about one partner going back to school, living on one income, starting a new business, or changing jobs, work together to make this financial investment one that benefits the whole family.
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The Money Couple is one of my favorite sources of financial information!
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I recently invested in a condo in Vancouver with my sister. We have a mortgage, and our renters are paying the mortgage and then some every month. We’ve only been doing this for three months now, but it’s working great. Our parents didn’t think it’s a risky financial investment because the real estate market is still on the downswing.
Even if it doesn’t pay out lots of money, it’s been a great experience already!
Thanks for this article, I think the more women know about money, the better.
Gina
Hi Gina,
Congratulations on investing in real estate! That’s very exciting, and I’m glad your first few months are going so well. My husband wants to buy a real estate property as an investment in Vancouver, too. He dreams of owning an apartment or condominium, and renting out the suites….
Good luck on this — keep me posted
Laurie
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